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We were recently asked the question of how to give the perfect hand job. What about the perfect blow job? Nothing could be more appealing to a man than to have a woman licking and sucking his penis. It is the most intimate, loving and sexy gesture a woman can give. So let me pass on some techniques you can try and see at what heights of ecstasy you can take your man.
First thing you should remember is the three C’s: Crave it. Concentrate. Continuous motion.
If you don’t enjoy what you’re doing, he is not either. One thing that may help to think of while you are pleasing him is that you are in control. You determine the speed, the pressure and to what levels of enjoyment you will take him.
Savor his erection:
While licking his penis savor each stroke as if you were eating an ice cream cone or licking a lollipop. Start by licking the head of the penis then move down to the V. This is just below the head of his penis and very sensitive to most men. I’m sure your man will testify to this.
Tongue Tricks:
While you have his penis deep in your mouth, wiggle your tongue back and forth across his shaft. Another great trick is to move your tongue in circles around the head while you slide your mouth up and down. You can even take the tip of your tongue and gently insert it in the slit on the tip of his penis.
G-Spots for Men:
Yes they have one too and to have your tongue lick across it will drive him insane. Ease your way down first by stopping and licking or gently sucking on his testicles. His G-spot is between his scrotum and anus. Flicking your tongue with a few gentle licks may just have him coming sooner than he thought. Massaging here while sucking the head of his penis will send him into oblivion.
Two-timing:
Suck on his penis and while doing this slowly move your body up. Replace your mouth with him having ONE deep stroke inside your vagina. Move off and take him back into your mouth. Enjoy the pleasure of both your juices together.
Position yourself:
Try giving him oral sex while he is standing or kneeling. His upright position intensifies the pressure in his penis not to mention the sight of you kneeling between his legs.
Deep-Throat:
We’ve all heard of it but how many actually know how to do it? The most important facts is that it takes practice and to get your mouth and throat into proper position. This is a long, straight line best achieved by lying on your back with your head hanging off the edge. Take a deep breath because he will be blocking your airway for a minute. If you feel the urge to gag, just swallow. With practice this will go away and I’m sure you will have no objection from him to help you practice.

One of the most worrying male sexual problems is impotence - or erection problems. It is a truly distressful experience for both partners and affects the general relationship of the couple. The decreased self-esteem of both parties often leads to communication problems and even, on occasion, the break up of the relationship.

- Physical versus psychological causes -

Today’s estimates indicate that in the USA alone approximately 10-20 million men suffer from various degrees of impotence at some point in their life.
In spite of the widespread believe that erectile problems are mainly caused by psychological factors, since the 1980’s it is revealed that perhaps about 80% of the erectile dysfunctions start with a physical factor. These could be surgical trauma, accident, diabetes, circulation problems, neurological problems, drug or alcohol abuse or as a side effect to medication.
However it is important to consider the interaction between the psychological and physical causes as a maintaining factor of this problem.

- Performance anxiety- the vicious circle -

One should also make a clear differentiation between erection problems which are persistent, and those which are present in some situations but not in others.
In sex therapy it is described as situational erectile dysfunction - and is referred to it in an enormously rarefied tome- the DMS IIIR (Diagnostic Manual of the American Psychiatric Association) - as a “…persistent or recurrent partial or complete failure in males to maintain erection until the completion of sexual activity”.
If a man fails to perform for any reason which, in certain circumstances, is quite common, he may well start worrying. Later on, the specific cause of his failure may be sorted out, but the anxiety remains, setting a vicious circle in motion: he worries because he cannot perform, and he cannot perform because he worries.
This kind of anxiety can interfere with the man’s excitement level and as a consequence he will lose his erection.
The more often he worries about his erections the more likely he is to lose them.
Most negative emotions like anger, resentment towards the partner, guilt and negative past emotional experiences can interfere with the excitement level. It is because it is not just a biological dynamo that powers sexual activity (like hormone level etc.) but also the processing of information in the brain.
Both biological and emotional factors can negatively and positively influence sexual arousal. A useful analogy in this instance would be that of a circuit, the point of which could equate to the brain (fantasy, sexual thoughts), perception (sight, hearing, smelling etc.) touch and emotions towards the sexual partner.
If a certain stimuli is negative at any given point on this circuit (e.g. painful stimulation, undesirable appearance of the partner) then the person would lose his or her sexual excitement; rather like turning the light on and off. If a man feels anxious or guilty during sexual activity, then it matters little how willing and pretty his partner is. Click, out goes the light.

- Feelings towards each other -

The most common secondary problem that arises is how the partners cope with this problem. Most people desire to please their partners, and it is fine until this desire gets out of hand. The person could become a victim of his own feelings; that of wishing to please the partner at any cost, and the expense of his or her own needs.The result could be lack of confidence in self.
If the partner is unsatisfied she may well react with anger, and in turn both feel unloved and rejected. These are obviously not ideal conditions for love making.
From the above explanation it is obvious that relationship issues play a complex part in performance anxiety. Erectile problems, as in most sexual problems, cannot be treated independently. They have to be managed in the context of a relationship. That is the reason why relaxation and experimentation with tranquilizers alone are often times in vain though in some instances they can help.
Most of the time it is advisable to seek professional help to unravel the underlying psychological issues of the problem.

- The possible cure -

When the relationship problems are resolved and communication is reestablished between the partners, then the sexual problem can be targeted.
The most common technique used is called sensate focus: this involves teaching the couple to focus on their own feelings and sensations, and to participate together on homework assignments.
The idea behind this is to allow people to become relaxed with each other both physically and mentally, thereby allowing them to recognize their own feelings. In order to reduce stress and performance anxiety, the couple is advised to refrain from intercourse for an initial period of a few weeks. The couple is told to caress each other, but not in a sexual context. This hopefully reestablishes sensuality and intimacy in the relationship; both partners do not worry about penetrative sex, as they are not allowed to have it. There are different stages in this therapeutical process and the couple goes through them gradually. Most of the time guidance from a qualified therapist is essential, giving important feedback to the couple as they progress.

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Description
The morning-after pill is a high-dose combination of the female hormones estrogen and progestin. This form of contraception should only be used in an emergency situation for a woman who has had unprotected intercourse or in the case where the chosen contraception has failed. Do not take any abnormal doses of birth control medication without consulting a physician! The morning-after pill slows the speed at which the egg travels through the fallopian tube and changes the uterine lining so that the egg cannot attach itself to the uteral wall. The uteral lining sloughs off, either taking the egg with it or making the uterus inhospitable to implantation.
Effectiveness
The overall effectiveness of the morning-after pill is 75%. Women who become pregnant despite taking the pill have a higher risk of harming the fetus, and many doctors recommend a therapeutic abortion. Ask a doctor for details about this potential concern.
Directions
The morning-after pill must be taken within 72 hours of having unprotected intercourse. However, For maximum effectiveness it should be taken within the first 12-24 hours. Normally, you are given two pills to take immediately and two more to be taken 12 hours later. If you experience vomiting within 2 hours of taking the pills, then two more pills should be taken. It may be a good idea to take an anti-nausea drug such as Gravol. Please consult with your physician about taking the morning-after pill. If you do not have your period in the next three weeks be sure to have a pregnancy test.
Drawbacks
These high dosages may disrupt the menstrual cycle and cause extremely uncomfortable side effects. The morning-after pill is an unpleasant experience to say the least. Many women who take the pill experience severe stomach upset, nausea, and vomiting. Women who have taken the pill have described it as similar to having a really bad stomach flu which can last from 4-48 hours. If the combination of hormones does not prevent pregnancy, they may harm the fetus, and you should consider the possibility of having to have an abortion should the method fail.

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Scripture Memory - Get these Scriptures into your head and heart. Quote them when you get up in the morning and whenever you are tempted. They will help you to renew your mind and teach you to think differently.
Romans 13:14 “Rather, clothe yourselves with the Lord Jesus Christ, and do not think about how to gratify the desires of the sinful nature.”
Romans 8:6 “The mind of sinful man is death, but the mind controlled by the Spirit is life and peace.”
John 8:34,36 “Jesus replied, “I tell you the truth, everyone who sins is a slave to sin. So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed.”
2 Corinthians 10:4-5 “The weapons we fight with are not the weapons of the world. On the contrary, they have divine power to demolish strongholds. We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.”
Work on victory only one day at a time:
Never think about getting victory for the rest of your life.
Here is the way to think: “The guys are all out of the apartment. Lord, just let me get through this one afternoon.”
Remind yourself how long it’s been since the last time you masturbated.
“I’ve had victory for a whole week. Praise God! Now do I really want to go through that guilt again just to start over again? NO, not today!”
Remember and review the long-term effects of masturbation.
The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body. 1 Corinthians 16:13
If you sin, it’s a little bit easier to sin the next time; but the opposite is also true — resist and it will make you stronger.
Submit yourselves, then, to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. James 4:7.
Resist the devil, standing firm in the faith, because you know that your brothers throughout the world are undergoing the same kind of sufferings. 1 Peter 5:9.
Engage in some type of strenuous exercise. Go and burnout and it will lessen the desire. One guy would go and do chin ups until his arms felt like they would fall off.
Therefore, I do not run like a man aimlessly; I do not fight like a man beating the air. No, I beat my body and make it my slave so that after I have preached to others, I myself will not be disqualified for the prize. 1 Corinthians 9:26-27.
Avoid any situation that tempts you personally. Avoid it. Change it. Expose it. Remove anything from your home that causes you to want to sin sexually — books, magazines, videos, etc.
Flee from sexual immorality. 1 Corinthians 6:18.
Flee the evil desires of youth, and pursue righteousness, faith, love and peace, along with those who call on the Lord out of a pure heart. 2 Timothy 2:22.
Find out what pleases the Lord. Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness, but rather expose them. Ephesians 5:11.
Be accountable to another Christian brother. Call a Christian friend with whom you can fellowship during this time of temptation.
He who trusts in himself is a fool. Proverbs 28:26.
Let not my heart be drawn to what is evil, to take part in wicked deeds with men who are evildoers; let me not eat of their delicacies. Let a righteous man strike me–it is a kindness; let him rebuke me–it is oil on my head. My head will not refuse it. Psalm 141:4-5.
Confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. James 5:16.
Change your habits of thinking. This is also the area that will take the most work. Quick and easy victory is unlikely. This is a war, not just a battle.
Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is. Romans 12:2.
Ask the Lord to show you why you have wrong desires. Give some serious thought to figuring out why you masturbation. A chronic habit of masturbation is usually a emotional substitute for something. It’s like a drug we use to anesthetize our emotional pain. Are you using masturbation to overcome sadness, feelings of rejection, or fear of failure? If so, then you are confusing psychological/spiritual issues with sex. Masturbating isn’t going to help you mature emotionally. It will only keep you childlike. Take some time to really figure out what masturbation is being used for in your life. Then separate out the psychological issues from God’s gift of sex. Ask God to reveal any burdens or anxieties you are carrying, then give them back to Him.
Get in the habit of praising and thanking God for the way you are, including your sex organs. Thank Him for making you a sexual being and ask Him to help you control yourself so you can enjoy sex in its proper context.
I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Psalm 139:14.
If you yield to the temptation, confess as soon as possible, and don’t dwell on it. You will feel guilty because you have given in to your flesh and have obeyed it desires, but don’t keep punishing yourself about it; instead rejoice in the cleansing, forgiving power of the blood of Jesus Christ. Renew fellowship with God and again reckon yourself dead to sin.
Grow spiritually. Don’t stop serving or learning. Sometimes guilt makes us feel like we are not worthy to serve in the church or associate with other Christians. That is Satan’s trap to keep you away from God’s grace (Romans 8:1). Don’t run from the streams of God’s grace. Stay involved and active. Becoming more like Christ in other areas will help you in this one.

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Sexual energy is instrumental to the Ageless Body. It is by virtue of the hormones and their master glands connected to sexual function that the body stays in a perpetual state of “juicy” youth. While the physical body has its primordial agenda, ever nudging us towards procreation, we may have our own response to the magnificent currents with which it titillates and entices us. That same orgasmic rush that flushes precious energy from the body can be orchestrated and turned upward to vitalize our entire being. It can also be transformed into creative feats and great powers of knowing or healing.
Through conscious application, the body’s life-enhancing secretions and substances can serve our needs in many ways. The sexual-physical body can be transformed into a higher octave energy body that nourishes the entire multidimensional Being. The sexual energy can be awakened from its base in the genitals, fed by the endocrine glands and released throughout the entire body to create an infinite helix of ageless energy.
Since sexual energy is a “raw” energy, it can be focused on almost any level. For example, if a person suffers from fatigue, mental confusion or even chronic sore throats, the sexual energy is powerful enough to strengthen every aspect of the being. It is really the handmaiden of the divine soul because it is the vehicle that transports soul into body.
Sexual energy is directly linked to the force of creativity, though it often plays the adversary and tries to restrict the creative surge by entrapping it in the lower octaves. Because it is coupled with biological sensations, it will tend to focus its force within the body without extending to more subtle forms of expression.
I remember very clearly how I suffered from the connection between the two. Especially as a teenager, whenever I would get a strong creative impulse, whether it was to make something or even to write, my sexual currents would immediately become activated as well. Often I simply could not withstand the intensity and would dissipate the energy by dancing or running or doing anything I could to free myself of its electrifying charge. It took me years to learn to contain the frequencies and push the sexual urge through the channels of creative expression. I am sure this is the reason young people so often start and abandon their creative projects; great beginnings are left half finished because the young person cannot hold the high energy voltage.
This aspect of sexual energy that wants to be released is the cause of much sexual dissatisfaction and misunderstanding between women and men, who both make love, all too often, for the release of tension, rather than to heighten communion. It is the most commonly expressed disappointment by women, who then say that the best part of sex for them is the closeness they seek after the act. They seem to feel that the act itself is mostly focused on the needs of the man. On the other hand, men feel judged and truly uncertain of how to make love to women outside of their own rushing pulse. Men often come to closure of sexual energy when women are just beginning to move towards it. The yang rhythm is basically a linear crescendo, while the yin tends towards a rolling, rising and falling pulse. A lot of this out-of-sync rhythm can be dissolved if the man will focus on foreplay that allows the woman to have some of her experiences first; then the couple can join each other at a closer pitch.
A very rewarding interplay is the conscious bringing together of the energies that can be accomplished by tantric and other techniques. By sending and receiving breath between the partners, a powerful charge of energy is built up that dissolves the blocks to profound union and heightens the body’s sensual experience of touch. As this happens, a much more profound awareness of energy exchange on subtle levels occurs, and one would never return to the old ways of intercourse.

Climax is the closure of the sexual act in terms of the rush of energy which exits the body; however, it also opens the space for the next wave which is a more subtle, but equally powerful, energy. After climax the body must rebalance itself from the exertion and loss. Here is a point where both partners can draw the energy from the genital area back up through the endocrine system. This revitalizes the gonads and feeds the body’s meridians and chakras, which have been opened emotionally as well as energetically from the exchange of energy passing through the joined auric fields. If you do this together while still in the embrace of love, the effect is a beautiful affirmation of your respect and caring for your own bodies.
Because the result of a strong gonadal system is vibrant health for the whole body, you must preserve its vitality even if it will not be involved in procreative functions. It is important to teach the body to transcend its purely reproductive functioning and apply the energy that may originate in the lower chakras to recharge the rest of the body.
If you seek an Ageless Body, you must become aware of your energy stores and be able to notice when these vital energies have drained from you. You can learn to draw the fluidic spark back up into you during and after making love so that your whole being can ride these most powerful currents of life.
Many spiritual groups who understand the ancient knowledge of the body do not recommend that one waste precious life force in sexual activity, because without the disciplined and enlightened (tantric) practice of energy flow, the body will indeed lose its power. In fact, the value or detriment of sexual expression in relation to spiritual laws have been hotly debated throughout the centuries.

Sexual energy is truly a sacred energy. It brought you into life through your soul connection to your parents who gifted you a physical vehicle with which to absorb and transcend your soul lessons. Through sexual energy you can move in exquisite concert with another being and together create new life! This mysterious feat has become devalued in an overpopulated world, but with the scourge of Aids, it will be seen differently by future generations who will view new life as a sacred and conscious act.
The enactment of sexual surging opens the auric field to allow you to embrace the nuances of another’s thoughts, feelings and bodily states. If you become aware of this intertwining you can caress and comfort on levels that have never been reached in human relationships. All healing is spiritual at its core and to give in these ways will always be part of the purpose of embodiment. If you tap your divine sexual energy at the higher frequencies, your whole life begins to transcend. Relationships will necessarily go through change as your deepened sexual experience carries you to a new depth of human fusion. From there the communication and sharing become transformed so that the “soul touching” echoes out into all other aspects of your life.
As your conception brought you into body, the threshold back across the veil becomes available to you when the same current courses upward again in search of its origin. Just as the sexual-physical body hungers to recreate itself by moving one step on to the next generation of itself, the sexual-spiritual body enacts the fusion of life through its marriage in the sea of the cosmos.
Do not be afraid to open your heart to the force of your spiritual nature as it awakens a new kind of sexual pulse. Human sexuality is ripe for a dramatic leap of expression. Each being can make love with a deep hope of touching something so profound that the ego is relinquished and the Higher Self encompasses the whole of conscious experience. Ultimately, to “have sex” using only the genitals is an empty, flat and one-dimensional exercise of isolation. It will not continue as a part of human expression because there is something stirring that is seeking an alignment of heart and soul. If you will join your sexual energy to your heart you will begin to feel the giggle of your ageless body.

Written by: Chris Griscom

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